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Restaurant Review: C London

Thursday, July 7th, 2011

I have thought about writing blog posts on restaurants I have visited before, but never managed to put fingers to keypad. Of course, this has now changed. The blogs I had in mind previously for my culinary musings would have focused on the service (or lack of) but this post is designed to highlight and praise what is probably now my favourite restaurant in London, and one of my favourite in the UK: C London.

Formerly called ‘The Cipriani’, it was forced to change its name to the present title due to a law suit from the Italian hotel (which also owns this restaurant… bizarrely). Situated in Mayfair’s Davies Street, the restaurant is (I discovered subsequently) a favourite of television and music mogul Simon Cowell, and a regular haunt of many A-list celebrities. There weren’t any slebs in when I ate, presumably that was because I was the token sleb at the time (please note the irony).

The restaurant is Italian in theme and like many good authentic Italian restaurants up and down the land they seem to employ half of Italy as their waiting staff. This is not strictly a negative as it does mean efficient and conscientious service, but I often find that it can mean the ‘dining experience’ is over before it has even begun. Maybe I am just fussy as I also don’t like sitting for hours for the food to be brought out, but there is an art in perfecting the timing of the diners’ service.

The one concern I always have with quick service of the food is that it hasn’t been prepared fresh. My mother would always say about late service, ‘well, at least it means it is fresh’. Quite true, and I did slightly question whether the food at C London was as fresh as it could be seeing as it seemed to fly out the kitchen before the waiter had even taken our order.

Any reservations I may have had were quelled when I tucked into Sausage Tagliarelle. The sausage meat had been squeezed out of the sausage skin and gently fried so it melted in the mouth. The pasta was fresh (of course) and a very light sauce coated the pasta. I also tried the Veal Milanese, which was tender and succulent.

I have a very sweet tooth and sadly I did not have time to sample any of their puddings. That said, I find that Italian restaurants generally have a consistently poor selection of puddings – tiramisu, summer pudding, gelati. Although at C London I did glimpse mention of a crepe on their website, so I shall retain judgment on the pudding front until my return visit in a few days.

C London

The interior design is awash with bronze and off-bronze colours. Copper-tinted mirrors clad the bar area, reflecting the 1930s inspired décor. The dining tables and chairs are lower than your average restaurant, which can be off-putting at first, as to a first-time diner it felt a tad like Alice in Wonderland, but it helps the congenial and laid back atmosphere that is synonymous with Italian dining.

Reading this review back it may seem to draw upon negatives and flaws too much, but the fact that I can only pick out one or two minor ones means that it is good: I’m quite critical. The prices are not that expensive for London standards, but it is certainly not cheap. The quality of food one gets and the overall pleasure from eating there is worth the slightly steep prices: if one got more on the plate then they might be justified. But it won’t stop me from going back for more.

Etiquette Postbag: 1st June 2011

Wednesday, June 1st, 2011

More questions have come in over the last few days and below are some of the more interesting ones together with my answers.

1) Please let me know, does etiquette teach arrogance? I am asking this because, if it does, then I will decide to book you. Is it worth learning it, as  I want to be able to respond with the same attitude to those people calling themselves “Royals” who display it on a daily basis toward others outside their circle.

Etiquette does not teach arrogance, and nor do I condone it. Sadly in today’s world, those who people think have good manners often are quite rude and, as you say, are arrogant and supercilious (especially to those ‘outside their circle’). This is one of the reasons that manners and etiquette have gained a bad image in the last decade or so. Being polite and courteous should be universal and everyone should be treated equally and with respect.

2) What should you call Kate Middleton now e.g. Your Majesty or Your Royal Highness?

The latter. Now that Catherine is part of the Royal Family then she is given the title of ‘Your Royal Highness’ (or ‘Ma’am’) when speaking to her in conversation. Only the Monarch is called ‘Your Majesty’, all others are ‘Your Royal Highness’, followed by Sir/Ma’am.

Her Royal Highness, Duchess of Cambridge

Her Royal Highness, Duchess of Cambridge

3) When seating guests at a formal dinner table, I typically seat the lady of highest honor (based on age or station) to my right. Is this proper?

This is proper. The most senior guests go to the right of the host/hostess. Thus, if President Obama hosted a state dinner for Her Majesty The Queen at the White House, Her Majesty would sit to the right of the President, and on the First Lady’s right would be Prince Philip.

4) In light of recent events, I have a hypothetical etiquette question for you. If for example in Ireland it was considered social protocol to clink glasses when greeting someone, would it have been a faux pas on Her Majesty’s behalf had she refused? Similarly, if in America the formal way of greeting someone was to hug them and Michelle Obama hugged The Queen, would this be inappropriate? Who’s right in a clash of cultural etiquette?

Good questions! Taking your first, it would be impolite of Her Majesty to refuse to clink glasses, should it have been social protocol to clink glasses. Thankfully, nowhere in the Western world is it correct to do so (correct me if I am wrong). If Her Majesty was in America and the First Last hugged Her (and it was that country’s custom to do so) then Her Majesty would graciously go along with it. (But it’s not!) The phrase ‘when in Rome’ is key here.

5) What are the social rules of getting onto an already packed-solid tube [the underground]. Squeeze in? Ask politely?

Well, if it’s packed-solid you won’t physically be able to board! You’d have to wait for the next train or try a different carriage. If there is clearly enough room for your personage then you can ask politely, although really the people already onboard should move for you (although on the London Underground nobody thinks properly).

Do keep your questions on etiquette, manners, taste and protocol coming in via my contact page. You can now hear me answering a daily question on Bolton FM at 3.30pm every Monday to Thursday.

 

Etiquette Postbag: Your Questions Answered

Thursday, May 26th, 2011

As per a few weeks ago, below are some of my favourite questions that I have received this week on matters of protocol, manners, etiquette and the like. If you have a question on any subject you think I’d know about, then do please contact me.

1) You stated on CNN that one never EVER ‘clinks’ glasses with the Queen, yet that is exactly what Ireland’s President did with her after her speech. She is even heard to say ‘I like the clinky glass.” Exception to the rule, or a gaffe by Ireland’s President McAleese?

It was a mistake on the part of the Irish President. Quite forgivable seeing as there seems to be an epidemic of clinking glasses going around the world at the moment. Her Majesty’s reference to “I like clinky glasses” would probably have been a ‘get out clause’ for the Irish premier as it would be impolite to point out the faux pas there and then (especially as Her Majesty was the guest).

2) I frequently catch public transport to and from university, and I would like to know some of your etiquette tips for public transport.

Public transport, I am not going to lie, is not my favourite, although I do use it. When I am in London I use the London Underground frequently and am getting much better at navigating it. In Manchester I frequently hop on buses to get from A to B. As with everything in life, there is an etiquette that comes with public transport and just because the condition of some buses is not brilliant it does not mean that people’s standards of behaviour should slip.

3) How was it that you got interested in etiquette? I am also interested in this matter and am a similar age to you.

I am heartened to hear that there is someone else of a similar age interested in etiquette and the like – I knew I couldn’t just be the only one! This link contains some of my background (although it’s a very old link). If you have any further questions I would be delighted to answer them.

Keep on maintaining standards! Don’t sink to everyone else’s level – raise them to yours.

4) When wearing a dinner suit what is the deal with the collar business? Does it have to point upwards or downwards?

Black tie (dinner jacket), when worn correctly, should be a turn-down collar (so a ‘normal’ looking collar). Winged collars are for White tie events.

A turn-down collar for black tie

A 'turn-down' shirt collar is correct for Black Tie

5) What do you think the best way is to be perceived as a young professional who knows what you are doing and want people to realise this more in meetings and first encounters?

People will be expecting you to be rubbish/not brilliant (if they know how old you are) and so I have always made sure that I beat (or match) them at their own game. They will be looking for weaknesses and be waiting for you to slip up and so it’s best to pre-empt that has best you can. Fortunately for me, I come across older than I actually am, which does help, although I still look young.