Archive for the ‘Etiquette & manners’ Category

Buttling in Persia

Monday, August 13th, 2012

Last month I had the privilege to work with Neda from Persian language TV to film a piece for later this year on how to be a butler. We filmed at the delightful Sennowe Park in Norfolk and had great fun as I taught her how to clean silver, serve afternoon tea, set the table, answer the door, as well as butler service at table.

The day was organised marvellously by the delightful Vernonica Joly de Lotbinière from More Then Good Manners, who was worked with Neda before. You can read what Veronica had to say about the day on her blog, here.

The episode will be posted here and on my main website when it airs later this year.

The Dummies’ Guide to Union Flag Protocol

Wednesday, June 20th, 2012

2012 is a great year to be British due to Her Majesty The Queen’s Diamond Jubilee. The Jubilee is a yearlong celebration, not just a one-weekend affair, as many believe. We also have the Olympics, which is also a cause for celebration (for some).

This landmark year has caused many Brits to dust off the bunting and hang out the flags. All very well and good, and bunting is a lovely way to show patriotism without going down the tacky plastic car flag route. What is not so pleasing is the fact that clearly no one in Britain realises that there is a correct way to fly our national flag.

Stoke-on-Trent train station, a pub in Manchester, the International Conference Centre in Birmingham, Harrod’s (no less): all places that have made a bit of a flag faux pas.

In the nautical world, flying a flag upside down is a sign to other ships that your ship is in distress.

Here is the dummies’ guide to Union Flag protocol. Someone please pass it along to Harrod’s.

  • When being flown from a flagpole, the thicker white band is in the top left hand corner
  • When being flown on its side (as with bunting) then, again, the thicker white band goes to the top left section of the flag
  • Flags (in general) are hoisted briskly at sunrise, and lowered slowly at sunset
  • If you are leaving a flag flying at night it must be illuminated

US artist will.i.am uses mobile phone during live TV show

Tuesday, May 1st, 2012

Well, this will.i.am was aghast to read that his US namesake (and slightly less talented rapper) was using his mobile phone during last weekend’s first live round of The Voice UK.

The singer was caught on camera using his gadget during one of the performances. The artist has since said that he wasn’t ‘being rude’ he was just conforming to the ‘new way’ that fans interact with TV shows. A clever reply, but not an intelligent one! Yes, we do now use our mobiles for much more than just calling or texting people, but when you are begin paid shed loads to sit and listen to people sing the least you can do is give them your full attention!

No one can ever fully concentrate on two things at once – women are better at it than men, but no one is perfect.

I just hope that will.i.am bucks up his ideas for next week’s show.

Daily Mail article can be read here.